White wedding dress: is the end of happiness?

The proverb once said: “marriage is the grave of love.” It is true that it is the end of the happiness between you and your lover if you get married? What is the meaning of marriage? How much courage does it take to get married? Some people marry because they love each other, some because they are children, some because they are old, some choose to marry people who do not love each other, some because they are impulsive, some only marry for the sake of inheritance, and they can marry for many reasons. So what is the purpose of marriage?

                                                                                 

  Why people want to get marry? Is it because of the initial throb, or the heroic ending?  Don't know when did we lost the ability to wait and love someone, but we all know, who is willing to stop and quietly look at your scars, listen to your pains, and slowly understand a person? You begin to learn to hid your emotions, less expectations, less disappointment, less paranoia, less harm. Growth deprives you of the affectation and childishness of emotions, experiences, and cools you down. And finally, you learned to be smart, not to give everything to one person, not to open your heart to one person easily, and not to devote too much time and energy to a person. You have grown up and are no longer the teenager who wastes time and energy wantonly. But one day, you finally meet that person, the one. Did you have enough courage to spend the whole life time to be with him? To me, I have to say, I am too young to answer this question, but if I am lucky enough, I think marriage is very romantic.

  The meaning of the wedding is not in that piece of paper, but in your determination to go with her forever. Although the proverb once said: “marriage is the grave of love.”, but I think, your love will die without burial place.